Thanksgiving Activities for the Whole Family
October 18, 2007 — Wendy Moyle
This annual holiday is observed as a day to commemorate the Pilgrim’s harvest of 1621, to give thanks for blessings great and small, and to have fun! The festivities need not be elaborate…just an opportunity for some fun quality time. One important thing to remember when playing games is that all the children should be rewarded equally for participating or winning.
Many of these classic games can be converted to tie in to a Thanksgiving/harvest theme with a simple name or prop change. Try one of the following:
• “Pin the Tail on the Donkey” – “Pin the Wattle on the Turkey”
• “Duck, Duck, Goose” – “Turkey, Turkey, Stuffing”
• “Hot Potato” – “Hot Turkey” (with a stuffed animal turkey)
• “Musical Hats” – “Musical Pilgrim Hats”
• “Bingo” – use candy corn as game pieces
• “Dress Up Relay” – Use simple scarecrow, Native American or Pilgrim costumes.
• “Ring Toss” – “Ring around the Gourd” (assign different point values to different sizes of gourds, pumpkins or dried Indian corn.
• “Three Legged or Sack Races” – Add an autumnal touch by creating an obstacle course using pumpkins, corn stalks, and bales of hay.
• Turkey Calling Contest – Host a turkey calling contest, complete with lots of squawking, flapping, wattle shaking, and pecking. Give each participant a prize with a fun distinction: “loudest turkey”, “most authentic”, “most likely to be spared”, “cutest turkey”, etc. This activity can also be turned into a relay race with the class split into two teams. Loud, but fun! (Ages 4-Adult)
• Turkey Bowling - The turkey will definitely be tenderized after participating in this game! Use a frozen turkey in place of a bowling ball (one that comes packaged with a handle attached) in a size that is appropriate for the age of the children. The frozen turkey is hurled at a set of bowling pins (use the real thing, tall wooden blocks or plastic milk bottles filled with stones). One parent helper can reset the pins after each turn. This game is a big hit with every crowd! (Ages 5-Adult)
• Balloon Popping Contest – Divide the children into two equal groups. Place two bags of inflated harvest colored balloons about 25 yards away . These balloons should be over-inflated to make popping easier. At the sound of a bell, the first two relay contestants, one from each team, run to the bag, and remove one balloon. Each must sit on it until it pops. Once the balloon pops, the players run back to the starting line and tag the next player in line. The first team to complete the course wins. If you have children who are afraid of the sound of popping balloons, offer a grown-up stand-in. Not a quiet game…but a guaranteed favorite! (Ages 4-Adult)
• Pass the Corn – Divide the children into two teams and have them form two lines. You will need two cobs of dried Indian corn. At the signal to “go”, the corncob is to be passed from child to child. The catch is that they can use any part of their bodies except their hands. If the corn touches the ground at any time, it must go back to the beginning of the line again. Whichever team manages to get the corn to the end of the line first wins the game. The corn can also be used in a relay, with the kids putting the corn between their knees, and racing crab style. (Ages 4-10)
• If the games can be played outside, “hay” fights are great fun!
Other Activites:
• Create Pilgrim hats that double as snack holders. For each Pilgrim hat, use one black stadium cup, one 6″ circle of black cardboard, a gold or yellow “buckle” made from cardstock paper, and tape or sticky pads. Fill the pilgrim hat with a dry snack (popcorn, pretzels, wrapped candies). Attach the circle base and buckle. They make great table decorations!
• Make feather Native American headdress napkin rings to add glorious fall color to your table. Cut toilet paper tubes into 1 ½” wide rings. Paint designs in festive fall colors on the “rings”. Add construction paper or real feathers. Allow each child to make a set for his/her family if time permits.
• Create personalized thanksgiving placemats. They can be used at the party and then sent home for Thanksgiving dinner. Use Tissue Leaves or leaves cut from construction paper. Give each child 8-10 leaves, and have them write one thing that they are thankful for on each leaf. Glue the leaves to a 12″ x 18″ piece of paper and laminate. Clear contact paper also works well for the purpose of laminating.
• Make turkeys out of pinecones. Add colorful feathers, wiggly eyes, and cut and bend pipe cleaners for the beak, wattle, and feet.
• Use uncooked popcorn to create beautiful fall mosaics. The popcorn can be painted after the glue dries if desired.
• Cover tables with orange flat paper. Add baskets of markers to the tables, and allow the children to draw on the decorative table covers if they finish other activities faster than anticipated. This activity is always a hit!
Make placecards for each guest. This can be done as an activity the day of the party, or can be completed ahead of time. A charming and personal touch on any table! Try one of the following, or create something with special meaning to you:
“Thankful for You Because” Bags: These can double as an activity and a placecard on the tables. You’ll need:
• Brown paper lunch sacks
• Green paint pen
• Raffia
• Tissue leaves in autumn colors
• Plenty of small pieces of paper (approx. 3″ x 4″ size).
Cut the top of each sack in a decorative manner (use pinking shears, or regular scissors to trim the size, and give the bag a little character). Glue one autumn leaf to the center of each bag at an angle. Tie raffia into little bows, and glue one to the base of each leaf with a hot glue gun. Write the name of each child on the bags (one name per bag) with the green paint pen. Place small pieces of paper in a basket along with pens and markers. Have each person write a note or draw a picture (little ones) of why they are thankful for each person. This can be done in the days preceding the party. Drop notes into bags. Allow time during the party for the children to read their notes…a great self-esteem building activity.
Pilgrim Placecards: You’ll need:
• Black paint pen
• Wooden clothespin
• Black pipe cleaners
• Bottle cap
• Construction paper
• Glue
Use fine-tip colored markers to draw faces on the “head” of each clothespin. Color the rest of the clothespin black. Just below the head, wrap a black pipe cleaner around the neck, to create the arms. Wrap another pipe cleaner around the fee, to make the Pilgrim stand up in the bottle cap. Glue on a black construction paper hat (complete with yellow buckle), and a white paper vest. Cut nametags from white or yellow construction paper, and attach to the pilgrim’s arms. They look really cute with the nametag held above the pilgrim’s head.
Mayflower Placecards: You’ll need:
• Terra cotta colored Sculpey modeling compound
• Toothpicks
• White paper plate
• Fill with M&M’s or mini candy bars in fall colors
Mold clay into boats similar in shape to the Mayflower. Cut a good-sized sail out of the edge of a white paper plate. Write the names of each child on the sails (one name on each sail). Poke two holes in the center of each sail (vertically), and use the toothpick as the mast. Boats should be approximately 4-5″ in length when completed.


A progressive party can be hosted to spread the joy of having a party around. Several couples or families can host this event. Anniversary parties, retirement parties, Going Away parties, Milestone Birthdays…this format works great for any occasion. A progressive party is one in which guests travel from home to home, eating one course at each stop. The joint hosts/hostesses get together to plan the affair and that can be half the fun! Design the invitation to look like a tri-fold restaurant menu or a treasure map, and even include pictures of each host family (easy with access to a color copier). Let guests know which course they will enjoy at each stop, and include a map if necessary. A unique twist would be to rent either a few stretch limousines, or a trolley. Check the options in your city, so that everyone can travel together. Combine the progressive party with another theme, and then have each home decorated in colors or kits matching the theme. Browse our other theme 